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With Ganeshotsav
around the corner, practice sessions of traditional art form of "Dol Tasha" are on full swing in
each and every mohalla of Pune
nowadays. One such group practices very near to my house too. I really like watching
and hearing them every day. But the aspect which amuses and fascinates me more this
year is the number of girls practicing and performing in the group.
Daily I
watch them in their salwar suits with
a Dhol tightly hanging from their
shoulder to waist, trying to perform in sync with male members of the group. I
feel really proud of them as they are trying to make a mark in an art form
which traditionally has more male performers.
Generally, I didn't get much time
to watch their whole practice session which usually continues till seven or
eight in the evening. But yesterday being a holiday I saw them wind up their
session. Afterwards, male members of the
group carried the Dhols with them
while the girls were sitting aside and chatting.
Surprisingly
it appears that these girls want to learn a predominated male art form and
perform like their male counterparts but when it comes to carrying the
instrument they needed help. So wasn't it a selfish and unfair move? Were they
really tired or were just taking an advantage of being a girl? Well, I cannot
judge the level of exhaustion of girls or the volunteering gestures of boys
just by observing and watching them.
But
didn't we all do the same in our lives, time to time? Didn't we all curse each
and every men walking past by and not helping us to start our scooty in rains? Whether
its carrying the heaviest shopping bag or giving a place to sit in a local; helping
and protecting are the basic fundamental duties of every male in our minds and
our female world. From father, brother, boyfriend to husband all the male
figures in our life are entitled for a set of obligations associated with us.
Didn't we all try to exploit the masculinity of other sex as per our needs,
situations or emotions?
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We
cannot become feminist as per our choice, needs, and situation. So is this
pseudo-feminism? Well, that is a long debate with an unclear answer. But for
now, we can give some credit and recognition to all the male figures in our lives, who
silently cover up for us in our thick and thins.
Hats off
to you guys!!